Category Archives: Snellville

The Hero with a peppermint ministry…

He flew helicopter rescue missions in Viet Nam…more than once. It was his duty. He loved his family. Loving them was beyond his duty, it was his joy. He was faithful to God and His Beloved Son. There was no question. He believed in prayer. He loved children. He loved people. And peppermints.

He always wanted to be a teacher, so, when he had the chance, he signed up to be a substitute and had a huge influence on hundreds of children each day for nearly a decade. He mostly stayed within the Pharr Elementary building in Snellville, GA because they kept him busy. On the rare day that he wasn’t called in, he would sit with the kids, eat lunch with a lonesome friend, or read with any number of students. Even the older crowd who didn’t “need” help still cherished reading with Mr. Weeks.

He handed out peppermints and soothed little souls with a smile or a hug. He was always joyful. He was heard to say, “This beats all, I served in Viet Nam, but you teachers, you are the ones in the trenches every day.”

He prayed. He kept the names of those who needed a prayer written down and he would make a daily trek to his church and pray for them in silent contemplation. He also made a daily trip to Kroger in his Cruiser to see what the manager had on “special” that day. That, and to get a lottery ticket. He won little victories here and there. Kept him in peppermint money.

He served his church through the children’s ministry and more. He would do anything asked of him if he was able. He loved children. And they loved him. They would do anything for him and as he grew weaker with cancer, they did do things for him. Mostly, they prayed, which was the best gift he could ever receive. His bedside was filled with loving notes and prayers from his young friends.

He loved his family and was proud of each child and grandchild. He loved his wife whom he had just lost a few months prior. He missed her. He fought cancer with the tenacity of a soldier until his wife was seen properly to her eternal rest so that he could join her when he was finished with the battle.

He walked the walk each day. His kind words, smiles and genuine love for his community was the stuff of everyday heroes. It was as much a part of who he was as the Viet Nam Veteran hat that he wore each day. He never forgot those boys either.

Children grew as excited as Christmas each year as they prepared for the annual Veteran’s Day Program at Pharr ES. They sang for parents, grandparents and other family members who had served, but they sang loudest and proudest for Mr. Weeks.

Our Grayson, GA community is saddened and mourns their fallen hero, Richard Weeks. Cancer took him away in body, but his spirit lives on in each one of the people whose lives he touched so completely.

He remained a teacher to the very last. His lessons came in the tender mercies that he so subtly gifted along with those puffy, red-and-white-striped peppermints… Perhaps he was just covering all bases…providing a refreshing boost for both spirit and body. That would be his way.

Two nuns and a writer…

Monastery of the Visitation in Snellville, GA  (photo Arch. of Atl)

Monastery of the Visitation in Snellville, GA
(photo Arch. of Atl)

Two nuns and a writer walk into the local lab for some bloodwork…The comedy of errors that led me to today’s “chat with nuns” was pretty frustrating, but proof that God always has a little plan in store.

As usual, I was running late, but the good news was that my kid DID make the bus and I could proceed without unnecessary additional time in the car-rider line to drop him off. I was driving my mother’s car because mine was on day three of being in the shop. Somehow, I managed to go to the wrong lab-twice! And I still had to have blood drawn, which isn’t all that fun. However, it did land me in a waiting room chair between two nuns and that was an experience in itself. Sitting there caused me to reflect on my morning and I was caught up in the thought that I had not done much of anything one might consider holy or devout. I hadn’t even taken time to properly prepare myself which led to the crazy nature of my route to the phlebotomist.

Oddly, in my zig-zag around town to get to the first wrong lab, I had passed the actual home of these particular nuns and took note that there were several cars parked there for morning Mass. As I passed, I thought to myself that I should take some time to attend at Mary Field sometime…

Sometimes…God stops you in your tracks and slows you down. As I listened to each of my two waiting room companions, I was reminded that we all need to take time to listen. Sister JM smiled and told me about how she used to make the bread that became the Host. It was a few years since she had been able to do so, but she had fond memories of each step of the process. She talked of the “dampening” process and how the cutting had to be done at just the right time or you ended up with crumbs. Sister C chimed in with a loving recollection of how the whole process was so spiritual. Something as simple as making bread that would become the center of our Mass was such a satisfying experience that, years later, each would recall the events with deep reverence.

Using the gifts that God has blessed me with, I urged each on with a small question or request for clarity. These questions led Sister C to tell me of her love of music and, as she realized my comprehension, she began to question me. So, I told her about my oldest teenaged son who loves to compose music and his understanding that his gifts are something to be thankful for. She promised to pray for him and the guidance that would bear fruit from his efforts. Sister JM recalled her father who had favored the Gregorian sounds. She found joy in the fact that, although singing had not been a gift I had been granted, that my youngest son sang with a beautiful voice. She acknowledged my own father’s influence on the musical abilities of my sons because he sang Barbershop Style and that made her smile a smile of the memory of her father’s voice. Each of the nuns promised to pray for my family and wished me well. I promised to do the same.

Each of these beautiful women, their hands showing their age, but their eyes bright with the enthusiasm of a spiritual life, gave me a gift today. They stopped me in my tracks and returned my pace to normal again. They gave me something to think about when I feel I am too rushed to give thanks and praise to Our Lord. These women were on an errand of mercy today and they were not really aware of it. Or, perhaps they were well aware of their ministry. The next time I see them it will go something like this…Two nuns and a writer walk into Mass…

Multigenerational Garden Musings from Ditdo…

Ditdo is modeling her Easter bonnet complete with garden customization.

Ditdo is modeling her Easter bonnet complete with garden customization.

Our multigenerational garden comes complete with a grandmother uniquely named “Ditdo”. It was a version of “Dado” chosen especially by the eldest grandson, Drew, when he was a mere 10 months or so. But that is another story for another day.

Yesterday, Easter Sunday, Ditdo was very busy slinging hams and taters around, but took a break to watch an extremely competitive corn hole game in the yard. She is seen here in her Easter bonnet completely customized by her friends Natalie and Ann Williams who are the mistresses of the hot glue gun. The decorations are mostly garden-oriented and were inspired by the lovely items that continually spring forth from the gardens surrounding our multigenerational house.

Now that you have had a proper introduction to Ditdo, read below for a bit of a read on how the multigenerational garden sends its tendrils curling into our lives each day…

It occurred to me while pulling out the two frozen tomato plants that were purchased at a store that it was supposed to happen that way. The ones I have replaced them with were surprise Easter gifts from church friends of so very many years and delivered by their adult son and wife who are very special friends to this family. I would guess that we have some delicious tomatoes on their way. -Ditdo

Among the girlfriends…reinventing yourself & happy birthday

Aly and the family in England-Tours by Mom!

Aly and the family in England-Tours by Mom!

So, there are some birthdays of note and it is becoming a habit of mine to kind of highlight the girls when I get the chance. This week, our birthday girls are celebrating a “reinventions” or “incarnations” of themselves. They have in common that their kids are growing a bit older, more independent and mom can step outside the house (and outside of themselves). They have  found great new ventures, each very different, but both well-suited.

First up is a longtime friend (anything prior to 1980 qualifies as “longtime”). Aly has been everything from parrot farmer to travel agent and everything in between. All of her experiences have allowed her to move from caterpillar, to chrysalis and finally a lovely purple butterfly-unique unto her own. Today, she has embarked upon a new direction surrounded by beloved books…school-librarian-in-training…I truly have not found her to be any happier than she is today(ok, maybe when her boys were born or her soccer team made the championships). But, babies trump all. It is her birthday and I wish her quite well! Reinvention is a great gift to give yourself.

Raggedy Ann's at Ally's Attic.

Raggedy Ann’s at Ally’s Attic.

Second, but not least (is that right?)…is Raggedy Ann… Ann Geeslin also celebrates her birthday this week. Why Raggedy Ann? It is the name of her newest “incarnation” – a fabulous booth at Ally’s Attic  in Lawrenceville. Pretty items rotate in and out, all with Ann’s special touch. You never know if you will find a “frilly” or a “macabre” tucked here and there. Her personality is playful and it shows in her choices as a collector and as a dealer. Always fun!

She can also draw, paint and craft with just a touch of whimsy that makes the ordinary quite extraordinary. Plus, she is also a great mom to an amazing kid! And her husband…not just along for the ride-they kinda like each other…really like each other, and it shows.

Ann, Kevin and Jake

Ann, Kevin and Jake

For both these birthday girls, family is the best daily gift. They live and love with family first. happyHappyHAPPYDay to Ann and Aly!

Pile on Coach Aly!

Pile on Coach Aly!

 

Some folks just remind you of others…Happy Birthday Mandy!

Mandy on the left, Sharon, me and mom on the right...

Mandy on the left, Sharon, me and mom on the right…

There are people who just remind you of other people right off the bat. In this case, it was a matter of about 20 years before I realized that someone I had admired in high school was just the spitting image in looks and spirit of my very favorite aunt. You see, my friend Mandy and my favorite aunt, Sharon Ann, had to be cut of the very same cloth. Sharon Ann was closer in age to me than many aunts are, but she was loved dearly by her niece, kind of like my friend Mandy is loved dearly by young’uns of all sorts who surround her. They share the same infectious laugh, the same irreverent nature that does not abide by most rules and the gift of keen observation which makes Mandy a great story-teller and the keeper of all manner of Snellville lore which she shares without hesitation. Our lives keep getting more intertwined again and again as we live those years between that time in high school and where we find ourselves today-still unwaveringly connected to our community.

It is that hometown community who will help Mandy celebrate a momentous occasion-her 50th birthday! Her party will be held at yet another former classmate’s bar and grill and the entertainment hails from that same Alma Mater. FLH band will play some serious rock and roll tonight at Glenda’s Bar and Grill out in Oxford, GA and we will dance, drink a toast and laugh together in celebration of a very special lady who is loved dearly by those who know her.

And of her “twin”? I know that she will laugh along with us and I will be lucky enough to have known both!

The Handsome Men of FLH

The Handsome Men of FLH

YES! There IS Hockey in Snellville!

Jr. Gladiators Celebrate National Championship with Maximus Lion!

It is a widely reported phenomenon among the hockey families that the most common public response to the wearing of one of our SGAA Sports HOCKEY shirts is something like, “There’s HOCKEY in Snellville?” You bet there is!

Despite the fact that there is no ice on our TWO rinks, fast-paced hockey does take place on local, national and international levels. This past Spring, SGAA Sports Dual Deck Arena even hosted teams from the Cayman Islands (Mostly Canadians…) during the ECHO Tournament. It was some intense competition and a great time was had inside the rink and at the outside tailgates.

Inline hockey is a family sport for certain. Even foreign-exchange students get in on the act. For a second year in a row, the Branch family is hosting a young man from Spain. Jaime and Manuel both came to America to play soccer and maybe dabble in football and lacross…but hockey grabbed their attention…They can’t help it-there are three boys already in the house plus their cousins who all have hockey sticks in hand.

SGAA Sports is for Girls Too!

The game is not for boys only. Very pretty young ladies play the sport and never ask for any special treatment because they are girls. These lovely young ladies are often found in the penalty box on any given weekend…just like the boys…plus, they are both school and community leaders.

Penalty!

Penalty Box…2 Minutes!

Part of the family feeling at SGAA  comes from the fact that it began as a small-town organization in 1966. Back then, they didn’t have hockey, but SGAA Sports has been a family-oriented group since its inception. This year, it was determined that something had to be done to offer an affordable action sport to local youth. Tim Gaines, SGAA director says, “We wanted to offer something affordable to get kids active.” The rate for first-time players was lowered to $50 and a “gear locker” was created by the SGAA Hockey Families. “Kids can borrow equipment from the  locker,” says Gaines. “It helps keep the cost down.”

SGAA Sports Inline Hockey Players Shift Change

After making the game more affordable, the organization then went so far as to offer a free clinic called “Learn To Skate” which takes place on Wednesday nights. Many kids come in wobbling on street-skates and end up screeching around on hockey inlines just a few lessons later. “It is amazing what happens when you give a kid a hockey stick and let ’em go,” says long-time volunteer coach Jack Britt.

Inline Hockey National Championship Game

So yes, the answer to the question is definitely…YES! There IS hockey in Snellville, GA. Just ask one of the hockey moms or dads. There are plenty of fans in the stands who keep the flow of sports drinks, snacks and cheering going for our players.

Maximus Lion

Gladiator’s Mascot…Maximus Lion loves inline hockey too!

Even Maximus Lion, mascot of our local ECHL Gwinnett Gladiators team is a HUGE inline fan. Community Relations Director, Jim Hall adds, “We love the youth hockey teams-they are some of our biggest fans.” Even though the SGAA kids play on rolling skates instead of blades, the game is still fast, fun and affordable. Check it out today!

Online registration is now open for the Winter session of Youth Inline Hockey thru Nov 1st at www.sgaasports.com.

FREE LEARN TO PLAY/LEARN TO SKATE program is moving to WEDNESDAYS from 6 to 7 PM.  Hopefully, this will allow families more time to get to the rink.  If you plan to attend on Oct 17th, please email tgaines@sgaasports.com.