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Multigenerational Garden…Catherine’s Red Clay

“An hour of concentrated work does more to kindle joy, to overcome sadness and to set your ship afloat again, than a month of gloomy brooding.” Benjamin Franklin

From Ditdo today…

Pretty springtime peony

Pretty springtime peony

Earl’s (aka Butch or Dado) mother, Catherine, came to live with us in 1992. Her health had deteriorated to the point that even she was not comfortable living in Indiana by herself. It took some time for her to get used to no more driving, a different kitchen and a new set of doctors, but as the first two years progressed she began to feel better. She even began to see better as the Emory Eye Care folks began to reverse years of neglect from Grave’s Disease.

Iris from "up north" grows in the red clay of Georgia.

Iris from “up north” grows in the red clay of Georgia.

Back in Terre Haute the dirt was rich and black. Her small city plot was full of peonies, iris, roses and her son, Butch’s, gooseberries. In Grayson, Georgia it was hard red clay. Gardening here was a hit and miss proposition as I was still working full time. Then came June of 1994 and the tornado. We went to bed that night with 63 trees in the yard. We woke up at 3:00 a.m. with 3 of them in the living room and only 2 left standing in the yard.

It was time for Catherine to take on a project. After the house reconstruction phase the strip of concrete outside her bedroom, alias Georgia red, was designated hers. It took her a few Springs but today that 6 ft. by 24 ft. is full of her handiwork. Done, as she always did, on her hands and knees.

Yellow yarrow remind us each year of our Multigenerational Garden.

Yellow yarrow remind us each year of our Multigenerational Garden.

Catherine has been gone for 7 years now, but her spirit lives on through her hours of “concentrated work” and that have “kindled the joy” for us as we walk through her garden. The azalea, camellias, hydrangea, lilies, iris, ferns are all still there. There are no gooseberries but maybe one of her bird friends will help us out, but that will be another story.

What a lucky Ditdo am I.

Multigenerational Garden…wine bottle opener whine…

Two bottle openers, two methods…one result!

Two bottle openers, two methods…one result!

Ditdo frequently laments my trapdoor memory for all manner of useless and sometimes useful information. She says it is just heXX getting older and not being able to do things that we “younger” folks can do with ease…(yeah right…).

One of the categories that stands out in the long list of things I “cannot” do is our selection of wine bottle openers. We have all sorts, but two of them are used the most. One is your average, every day dollar store variety. You know…screw in, press down the vice and viola! you have an opened bottle of wine to cure your whine. The other is a source of constant consternation for me (the “younger”). It is one of those XO models that is supposed to be good for arthritic hands. My 71 year-old mom has no trouble WHATSOEVER utilizing this fancy tool to pop open a bottle of her favorite merlot or sauvignon blanc. She places the instrument upon the top of the bottle and within a second or two has her bottle open. I cannot operate the blasted thing to save my life. It completely confounds me beyond reason. I generally end up with a shredded cork and bits floating around in my chardonnay. This leads to having to strain the bits out using a method fully tested by my mother and me, but like I am apt to say…that is a totally different story.

So, in the meantime, I am often humbled to be forced to ask my mommy to open my bottle of wine. But, in the end, if there is a bit of whining to do, well, we do that equally well-mostly on the front piazza in our multigenerational garden where I will no doubt dredge up some sort of useless trivia from the depths of my brain  to take our minds off of the current subject of whine.

Multigenerational Garden musings Dado…

Dado and Rebadog celebrate 2 years since open-heart surgery.

Dado and Rebadog celebrate 2 years since open-heart surgery.

Meet Earl. He has a few monikers, Dado is his favorite, but we also like to call him “Chief Mended-Heart”.  Just over 2 years ago, he had open-heart surgery at Gwinnett Medical Center and he is pictured here in our multigenerational garden with his trusty sidekick, Reba.

On this particular sunny southern day, Dado was preparing the soil for “the great potato experiment.” His middle grandson, Alex, wandered out into the garden and pondered the scene. He asked, “What are you planting?” Dado answered, “Potatoes.” Alex paused and then asked, “Are you planning to make vodka?”

And so it goes in the multigenerational garden.

Off the Deaton Path

Off the Deaton Path.

Let them call you Sweetheart…time to order up a Singing Valentine

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6_2EZTHUKxU

Order early Atlanta and have a REAL Barbershop Quartet deliver an old-fashioned valentine. Complete with a red rose, these Barbershoppers will woo your beloved with time-honored love songs. Let Me Call You Sweetheart and My Wild Irish Rose are among the very favorites.

Contact the Stone Mountain Chorus early for the best options of delivery of an unforgettable and incredibly romantic Valentine. Not to mention, you have to order early to make sure you are able to book MY dad’s quartet! #prouddaughter

Stone Mountain Barbershop Chorus

Following Your Dreams…Today’s Inspiration- Vintage Wrench

Vintage Wrench Logo

 Blog inspiration today is brought to you by: “dWoz” Darren Wozniak and his step by step methodical movement toward his dreams despite a painful setback! Check out his new shop, the awesome autos and the very cool paintings airbrushed on the walls at Vintage Wrench LLC.

Vintage Wrench Painting

Darren came  into the active community that is somewhat loosely attached to the South Gwinnett and Brookwood High School Alumni groups on Facebook along with about 1500 others who called the area around Snellville, GA “home” at one point. (More on that group and all it accomplishes at a later date…)

Vintage Wrench Paint 2

There is rarely a day that Darren, often inspired by his lovely bride, Mari,  doesn’t post something meaningful, insightful, inciting or out there…but, he has this habit of believing that whatever the challenge may be; it is meant to be overcome. Sometimes he has a plan and sometimes, when faced with a bit of adversity, he just bulls through.

Vintage Wrench Shop

In any case, he is pretty resourceful and today’s point of inspiration-further proof that Facebook can provide connections that affect you in a variety of ways and you never know who is reading and what lesson they take from your postings. Go Vintage Wrench!!!!  Thanks for letting us all “lurk” on your journey. 

McConnell Middle School Student uses Minecraft skills to showcase art…

McConnell Middle School student, Joshua Morrison's work of art showcases a combination of skills.

McConnell Middle School student, Joshua Morrison’s work of art showcases a combination of skills.

While mom, Alyson, was working in the Media Center today, Joshua got to “vandalize” a wall at school (as he put it.) “His 1-point perspective drawing was selected, by his Art teacher, to be turned into a temporary mural. This was one of his Minecraft drawings/doodles, too, not even a class assignment! Kid wants to be an architect, and I think JSM Enterprises has a nice ring to it!”  (from Alyson’s post on Facebook).

Wedding Vow Renewal on the Winter Solstice

The text of the wedding vow renewal ceremony:

Winter Solstice Vow Ceremony

A very warm winter welcome to all of you. Thank you for choosing to celebrate your marriage with us.

Historically, this night is one filled with the wonder of renewal. The world experiences the longest night in a variety of ways and our celebration draws from the many traditions that celebrate the renewal of the source of light. The light of the world shines brightly as a beacon of hope in a way that transcends language, culture or religion. It is a symbol of renewal and hope for the best of what is to come. Wedding vows are a symbol of hope and all that is sacred to each individual couple. We are so happy that you have chosen to help us celebrate our future by renewing your vows with us on this mystical and magical night.

Please join us in a renewal of vows by repeating each phrase:

  1. Winter is a season of quiet preparedness; please grant us time to prepare our marriage for all seasons to come.
  2.  The light of the world shines this night for renewal; may the light of our union shine brighter than ever in the days to come.
  3. May the white of our dresses be the fabric that reflects the light of our love for all seasons to come.
  4. In the chill of the season, in the darkness of this night;  let us remember to look forward toward that path that is lit for us together and walk it hand-in-hand.
  5. As we prepare for the feast to celebrate returning light, may we each remember to love each other at our own tables and give thanks for the love that burns bright.
  6. I, ___________________ take thee ______________________ to be my partner/spouse  for life and to celebrate the light of our love each day.

Now that you have renewed your promise to love one another through darkness and light; I now pronounce you all Spouses. You may now show your love by sharing a lasting kiss on this, the longest night of the year!

Some folks just remind you of others…Happy Birthday Mandy!

Mandy on the left, Sharon, me and mom on the right...

Mandy on the left, Sharon, me and mom on the right…

There are people who just remind you of other people right off the bat. In this case, it was a matter of about 20 years before I realized that someone I had admired in high school was just the spitting image in looks and spirit of my very favorite aunt. You see, my friend Mandy and my favorite aunt, Sharon Ann, had to be cut of the very same cloth. Sharon Ann was closer in age to me than many aunts are, but she was loved dearly by her niece, kind of like my friend Mandy is loved dearly by young’uns of all sorts who surround her. They share the same infectious laugh, the same irreverent nature that does not abide by most rules and the gift of keen observation which makes Mandy a great story-teller and the keeper of all manner of Snellville lore which she shares without hesitation. Our lives keep getting more intertwined again and again as we live those years between that time in high school and where we find ourselves today-still unwaveringly connected to our community.

It is that hometown community who will help Mandy celebrate a momentous occasion-her 50th birthday! Her party will be held at yet another former classmate’s bar and grill and the entertainment hails from that same Alma Mater. FLH band will play some serious rock and roll tonight at Glenda’s Bar and Grill out in Oxford, GA and we will dance, drink a toast and laugh together in celebration of a very special lady who is loved dearly by those who know her.

And of her “twin”? I know that she will laugh along with us and I will be lucky enough to have known both!

The Handsome Men of FLH

The Handsome Men of FLH

Winter Solstice Wedding Vow Renewal at Vecoma at the Yellow River

 

 

Vecoma at the Yellow River celebrates award

Vecoma at the Yellow River

Vecoma at the Yellow River celebrates The Knot .com’s Hall of Fame Award with Winter Solstice Wedding Vow Renewal Party

 

Snellville, GA, Gwinnett County/USA

December 11, 2013

 

Vecoma at the Yellow River is the first to ever win the Hall of Fame Award from The Knot and the only venue in Georgia to win the award.

 

Executive Director and family member, Caroline Tucker, is overwhelmed by the feedback from “her brides”. “They took the time to provide the reviews online that led to this prestigious award,” says Caroline. “I appreciate each of them for being so kind and loving with their words.”  This is a HUGE award for our family business and Vecoma wants to do something very special for our brides.

 

Vecoma is celebrating the award with the theme of: Winter Solstice Magic “White Dinner”, which is a nod to many December traditions with some creative adaptation. The Wedding Vow Renewal will take place in conjunction with a meal based on white foods with a celebratory twist.

 

The Solstice represents a new season. Winter white is used to represent the refreshed and renewed aspects attached to the color. Female guests are asked to wear white (or their wedding gown if it still fits…). The décor is to be sparkling, white and glittery to bring the idea of the magic of celebrations like St. Lucia (Scandinavian), Soyal (Hopi/Zuni Purification), and Yule (German) together on the shortest day of the season and invite the sun to begin returning to the skies.

 

winter solstice7Along with the their superb chefs, A.B. Bailey and Walter Reid (each with 17 years at Vecoma) and Novis Cody who joined the team 10 years ago, Vecoma’s staff is planning a mass vow renewal and Winter Solstice party for all of the couples married at Vecoma over the past 17 years.  “We want them all to wear their wedding dresses or a white dress with their original veil,” says Judith Warren, owner. “It is our sincerest wish for this to be a wonderful evening that coincides with the beginning of the winter celebrations.”  The lodge will display a wintery white décor and a winter solstice white dinner will be served after the vows.

 

The Winter Solstice and Mass Wedding Vow Renewal will take place at 6pm on Saturday, December 21st, 2013 at Vecoma at the Yellow River. The event will include brides with bookings into 2014 who will enjoy the company of couples who have “tied the knot” with Best that The Knot.com has to offer in Atlanta.

 

With 2013 awards from The Knot Best of Weddings and Wedding Wire Brides’ Choice, and Atlanta Bridal, Vecoma at the Yellow River enjoys the support of the brides who have experienced a magical Vecoma wedding.

 

Nestled among 70 acres of forest, Vecoma offers a beautiful setting for weddings and special events inside and out. Riverside weddings are extremely popular as the natural setting creates a spectacular backdrop with the Yellow River flowing gently behind the wedding party.

 

 

 

The lodge has been designed to capture the history of Vecoma, yet provide a modern touch with all the conveniences. Soft, buttery walls, twinkle lighting, antiques and interesting little touches throughout create a memorable space to hold a ceremony and reception. The huge covered deck overlooks the wedding area and river just beyond.

 

 

 

At Vecoma, weddings find a riverside setting befitting a beautiful bride with plenty of space to dance all while reflecting the love in the hearts of a couple starting a new life together.

 

Contact: Judith Warren, 770-972-6540, vecoma@mindspring.com