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Rocky Mountain High Fourth of July…

 

Watching the fireworks burst directly in front of us was a sight to behold. “The Staff” from Long’s Peak Inn had climbed through the woods to a large boulder outcropping that offered a perfect bird’s-eye view of the show being staged from Estes Park below. The fact that we had toted a sparkling new stainless steel garbage can “borrowed” from the kitchen which was filled to a sloshy capacity with the traditional recipe of Hawaiian Punch and grain alcohol

Long's Peak Inn, Estes Park, CO.

Long’s Peak Inn, Estes Park, CO.

had no bearing on the shared mouth-gaping amazement that each of us seemed to feel. It certainly didn’t hurt, but the spectacle alone was enough to wow. Sort of made you…high. Our dude ranch had been around for a great many years and attracted guests and staff from all parts of the world. We offered the basic horseback riding, mountain hiking and trout fishing packages along with kid care and a full bar with knowledgeable tender, hot tub, solar heated swimming pool and in house bakery (that was me!) We welcomed guests on Sunday nights with a staff talent (or lack thereof) show. Kid counselors met the children and parents relinquished control to the fresh-faced crew sporting cowboy hats and western shirts. We participated in the tradition of square dancing and tried to make it look natural despite the fact that hardly a soul was actually from the western states. Those cowboys and girls took off for the summertime beach jobs as soon as the roads thawed. Each week, it took a tremendous effort by the staff to pull off the extensive activities schedule. Making the experience as close to authentic western dude ranch was important and we took our roles seriously. As much as we loved the experience, everybody needs a break; a midsummer’s night dream. Right? It can be agreed that the traditional halfway mark of summer for Americans is Independence Day. No matter what day of the week it might fall, July 4th is reason enough to celebrate before moving forward into the dog days of summertime. Our eclectic crew was no exception to the tradition of marking the event with flair, so plans were made and work was dispensed with in a fat hurry on that nearly sacred day. Being that about half of our staff had come to work for the summer from Great Britain, we Americans felt the need to ensure a memorable Independence Day that would rival any event that the mother country could provide. We did what any typical American kids would do, we mixed up an industrial-sized container of Hunch Punch and set forth to watch the fireworks. Earlier that day, we had cooked and served a traditional “burgers and dogs” barbeque for the guests at the ranch and then made certain that our new friends poured on the right amounts of ketchup, mustard, relish and onions. For my part, hailing from Atlanta, I made certain that the coleslaw was chopped finely enough to mimic that delicious hot dog topping made famous at The Varsity Drive-In located just outside the Georgia Tech campus. It was good eats. Sated, we all completed our cleanup duties and made fast tracks before dark to our predetermined boulder with blankets and whatever else besides the punch that might make for a wonderful Rocky Mountain High kind of Fourth of July… Everybody found somebody to lean against on that chilly outcropping and a feeling of real summer took effect on our group. Inevitably, someone produced a guitar and harmonica. Can’t be dude ranch staff without those tools. Just ain’t right at all. Just as inevitably, John Denver tunes began to serenade our quickly mellowing group. We did get treated to seeing it raining fire in the sky. There were friends around a campfire and whether anybody imbibed or not, everybody found a sort of Rocky Mountain High… Colorado, a great place for summer love and summer secrets. Hollywood could not have staged a better set for showing foreigners exactly what a college-aged American summertime is all about and nobody could have provided a better soundtrack than John Denver himself. Slowly, pairs began to drift off together down the mountain. The singing, strumming and harmony slowed and faded away with the smoke that trailed from the last of the rockets’ red glare. Real stars, their appearance masked by the man made sky show, began to twinkle along with the moonlight that illuminated the aspen path back to Highway 7. It was a path back to our daily routines of waiting tables, baking, frying, cleaning and entertaining an ever-changing group of tourists hungry for horseback riding and trout fishing in the high mountains of the Colorado Rockies that can be found in the colorful pages of travel brochures. But, for that one night, on July 4th 1986, a group of British and American dude ranch staff came together for an unforgettable Rocky Mountain July High.

Multigenerational Garden…Catherine’s Red Clay

“An hour of concentrated work does more to kindle joy, to overcome sadness and to set your ship afloat again, than a month of gloomy brooding.” Benjamin Franklin

From Ditdo today…

Pretty springtime peony

Pretty springtime peony

Earl’s (aka Butch or Dado) mother, Catherine, came to live with us in 1992. Her health had deteriorated to the point that even she was not comfortable living in Indiana by herself. It took some time for her to get used to no more driving, a different kitchen and a new set of doctors, but as the first two years progressed she began to feel better. She even began to see better as the Emory Eye Care folks began to reverse years of neglect from Grave’s Disease.

Iris from "up north" grows in the red clay of Georgia.

Iris from “up north” grows in the red clay of Georgia.

Back in Terre Haute the dirt was rich and black. Her small city plot was full of peonies, iris, roses and her son, Butch’s, gooseberries. In Grayson, Georgia it was hard red clay. Gardening here was a hit and miss proposition as I was still working full time. Then came June of 1994 and the tornado. We went to bed that night with 63 trees in the yard. We woke up at 3:00 a.m. with 3 of them in the living room and only 2 left standing in the yard.

It was time for Catherine to take on a project. After the house reconstruction phase the strip of concrete outside her bedroom, alias Georgia red, was designated hers. It took her a few Springs but today that 6 ft. by 24 ft. is full of her handiwork. Done, as she always did, on her hands and knees.

Yellow yarrow remind us each year of our Multigenerational Garden.

Yellow yarrow remind us each year of our Multigenerational Garden.

Catherine has been gone for 7 years now, but her spirit lives on through her hours of “concentrated work” and that have “kindled the joy” for us as we walk through her garden. The azalea, camellias, hydrangea, lilies, iris, ferns are all still there. There are no gooseberries but maybe one of her bird friends will help us out, but that will be another story.

What a lucky Ditdo am I.

Multigenerational Garden…wine bottle opener whine…

Two bottle openers, two methods…one result!

Two bottle openers, two methods…one result!

Ditdo frequently laments my trapdoor memory for all manner of useless and sometimes useful information. She says it is just heXX getting older and not being able to do things that we “younger” folks can do with ease…(yeah right…).

One of the categories that stands out in the long list of things I “cannot” do is our selection of wine bottle openers. We have all sorts, but two of them are used the most. One is your average, every day dollar store variety. You know…screw in, press down the vice and viola! you have an opened bottle of wine to cure your whine. The other is a source of constant consternation for me (the “younger”). It is one of those XO models that is supposed to be good for arthritic hands. My 71 year-old mom has no trouble WHATSOEVER utilizing this fancy tool to pop open a bottle of her favorite merlot or sauvignon blanc. She places the instrument upon the top of the bottle and within a second or two has her bottle open. I cannot operate the blasted thing to save my life. It completely confounds me beyond reason. I generally end up with a shredded cork and bits floating around in my chardonnay. This leads to having to strain the bits out using a method fully tested by my mother and me, but like I am apt to say…that is a totally different story.

So, in the meantime, I am often humbled to be forced to ask my mommy to open my bottle of wine. But, in the end, if there is a bit of whining to do, well, we do that equally well-mostly on the front piazza in our multigenerational garden where I will no doubt dredge up some sort of useless trivia from the depths of my brain  to take our minds off of the current subject of whine.

Multigenerational Garden musings Dado…

Dado and Rebadog celebrate 2 years since open-heart surgery.

Dado and Rebadog celebrate 2 years since open-heart surgery.

Meet Earl. He has a few monikers, Dado is his favorite, but we also like to call him “Chief Mended-Heart”.  Just over 2 years ago, he had open-heart surgery at Gwinnett Medical Center and he is pictured here in our multigenerational garden with his trusty sidekick, Reba.

On this particular sunny southern day, Dado was preparing the soil for “the great potato experiment.” His middle grandson, Alex, wandered out into the garden and pondered the scene. He asked, “What are you planting?” Dado answered, “Potatoes.” Alex paused and then asked, “Are you planning to make vodka?”

And so it goes in the multigenerational garden.

Off the Deaton Path

Off the Deaton Path.

Let them call you Sweetheart…time to order up a Singing Valentine

Order early Atlanta and have a REAL Barbershop Quartet deliver an old-fashioned valentine. Complete with a red rose, these Barbershoppers will woo your beloved with time-honored love songs. Let Me Call You Sweetheart and My Wild Irish Rose are among the very favorites.

Contact the Stone Mountain Chorus early for the best options of delivery of an unforgettable and incredibly romantic Valentine. Not to mention, you have to order early to make sure you are able to book MY dad’s quartet! #prouddaughter

Stone Mountain Barbershop Chorus

Following Your Dreams…Today’s Inspiration- Vintage Wrench

Vintage Wrench Logo

 Blog inspiration today is brought to you by: “dWoz” Darren Wozniak and his step by step methodical movement toward his dreams despite a painful setback! Check out his new shop, the awesome autos and the very cool paintings airbrushed on the walls at Vintage Wrench LLC.

Vintage Wrench Painting

Darren came  into the active community that is somewhat loosely attached to the South Gwinnett and Brookwood High School Alumni groups on Facebook along with about 1500 others who called the area around Snellville, GA “home” at one point. (More on that group and all it accomplishes at a later date…)

Vintage Wrench Paint 2

There is rarely a day that Darren, often inspired by his lovely bride, Mari,  doesn’t post something meaningful, insightful, inciting or out there…but, he has this habit of believing that whatever the challenge may be; it is meant to be overcome. Sometimes he has a plan and sometimes, when faced with a bit of adversity, he just bulls through.

Vintage Wrench Shop

In any case, he is pretty resourceful and today’s point of inspiration-further proof that Facebook can provide connections that affect you in a variety of ways and you never know who is reading and what lesson they take from your postings. Go Vintage Wrench!!!!  Thanks for letting us all “lurk” on your journey. 

McConnell Middle School Student uses Minecraft skills to showcase art…

McConnell Middle School student, Joshua Morrison's work of art showcases a combination of skills.

McConnell Middle School student, Joshua Morrison’s work of art showcases a combination of skills.

While mom, Alyson, was working in the Media Center today, Joshua got to “vandalize” a wall at school (as he put it.) “His 1-point perspective drawing was selected, by his Art teacher, to be turned into a temporary mural. This was one of his Minecraft drawings/doodles, too, not even a class assignment! Kid wants to be an architect, and I think JSM Enterprises has a nice ring to it!”  (from Alyson’s post on Facebook).

Wedding Vow Renewal on the Winter Solstice

The text of the wedding vow renewal ceremony:

Winter Solstice Vow Ceremony

A very warm winter welcome to all of you. Thank you for choosing to celebrate your marriage with us.

Historically, this night is one filled with the wonder of renewal. The world experiences the longest night in a variety of ways and our celebration draws from the many traditions that celebrate the renewal of the source of light. The light of the world shines brightly as a beacon of hope in a way that transcends language, culture or religion. It is a symbol of renewal and hope for the best of what is to come. Wedding vows are a symbol of hope and all that is sacred to each individual couple. We are so happy that you have chosen to help us celebrate our future by renewing your vows with us on this mystical and magical night.

Please join us in a renewal of vows by repeating each phrase:

  1. Winter is a season of quiet preparedness; please grant us time to prepare our marriage for all seasons to come.
  2.  The light of the world shines this night for renewal; may the light of our union shine brighter than ever in the days to come.
  3. May the white of our dresses be the fabric that reflects the light of our love for all seasons to come.
  4. In the chill of the season, in the darkness of this night;  let us remember to look forward toward that path that is lit for us together and walk it hand-in-hand.
  5. As we prepare for the feast to celebrate returning light, may we each remember to love each other at our own tables and give thanks for the love that burns bright.
  6. I, ___________________ take thee ______________________ to be my partner/spouse  for life and to celebrate the light of our love each day.

Now that you have renewed your promise to love one another through darkness and light; I now pronounce you all Spouses. You may now show your love by sharing a lasting kiss on this, the longest night of the year!

Some folks just remind you of others…Happy Birthday Mandy!

Mandy on the left, Sharon, me and mom on the right...

Mandy on the left, Sharon, me and mom on the right…

There are people who just remind you of other people right off the bat. In this case, it was a matter of about 20 years before I realized that someone I had admired in high school was just the spitting image in looks and spirit of my very favorite aunt. You see, my friend Mandy and my favorite aunt, Sharon Ann, had to be cut of the very same cloth. Sharon Ann was closer in age to me than many aunts are, but she was loved dearly by her niece, kind of like my friend Mandy is loved dearly by young’uns of all sorts who surround her. They share the same infectious laugh, the same irreverent nature that does not abide by most rules and the gift of keen observation which makes Mandy a great story-teller and the keeper of all manner of Snellville lore which she shares without hesitation. Our lives keep getting more intertwined again and again as we live those years between that time in high school and where we find ourselves today-still unwaveringly connected to our community.

It is that hometown community who will help Mandy celebrate a momentous occasion-her 50th birthday! Her party will be held at yet another former classmate’s bar and grill and the entertainment hails from that same Alma Mater. FLH band will play some serious rock and roll tonight at Glenda’s Bar and Grill out in Oxford, GA and we will dance, drink a toast and laugh together in celebration of a very special lady who is loved dearly by those who know her.

And of her “twin”? I know that she will laugh along with us and I will be lucky enough to have known both!

The Handsome Men of FLH

The Handsome Men of FLH