Just Iced the Bathtub…

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Caulked the tub today...ho hum DIY!

Some days the creative juices just need some elbow grease to get going. Sometimes they need cake, but that is another blog entirely…

After rooting around in the attic trying to track down a lost leprechaun, I noticed that next to the Easter Beagle storage box was a nice little critter hole in the gable screen. One thing always leads to another, so I did what all mommies would do…I stapled chicken wire up over the entire opening. I expect quite a racket at dusk when the critter attempts to return home. Pretty sure that the critter was not in the attic at the time I staple-gunned the wiring in place since both cats had been roaming around with me. No noise is good news…in this case. 

With the attic secured, I brought the Easter Beagle and friends down for a decor change. Silly leprechaun is still hiding up there somewhere with Santa and the Wise Men. 

Closed up the attic and went to gather towels for my next chore-laundry. Ho Hum and mundane…I thought…until I stepped on a damp spot located in a place that should have been dry. One thing lead to another, carpet was pulled back, floors cleaned and caulk located. This all lead to me sitting on the edge of the tub thinking about how I could put a positive spin on the “elbow grease break” I had taken from my creative processing (work). It occurred to me that caulking the tub is a bit like icing a cake; messy, somewhat pretty and you get to squeeze a tube of fluffy white stuff along the edge of a surface. So, I hummed a few bars of Patty Cake, Patty Cake and squished my nice straight lines.

The tub looks pretty good. I am back at my desk typing and hoping that creativity will begin to flow faster than my fingers will move. Maybe later, when I reach today’s quota, I will relax with a hot bath to celebrate so I can admire my handiwork.  I just hope I don’t get interrupted by an angry squirrel testing my new security measures…and if that leprechaun insists on staying in the attic, he had better stand guard. Santa and the Wise Men prefer not to be interrupted, it’s poker night.  

Do You Make This Stuff Up?

You know all those great quotes that pop up on the internet every day? There are real live people who make that stuff up! Sometimes it just rolls out daily or even hourly. Sometimes, they go days without a peep. But mostly, they say way cool stuff and their friends just WAIT for it! And when it is really good, the commentary is a bit like a feeding frenzy.

Maybe you have a “friend” on your FB or Twitter account who just cracks you up or says something profound every day. Maybe you hadn’t really noticed until they went a few days without a catch-phrase. Social media has given many a forum for their talents and perhaps reshaped the ideal of what is “social”.

Sometimes it might be a bit like your diary read out loud. Perhaps it might be a veiled comment or a twist of words that makes a catchy post, well…catchy.

Whether it is Christy’s heart pouring out some tender-hearted quotations,  Stan zinging us with a certain brand of humor or Connie’s daughter describing her young life without apology, the friends on my page keep me aware that human nature is a broad category. Commentary is welcome…just please…don’t eat me alive!

Hot and Sour Soup…Cold Cure…

Hot and Sour Soup Served Here...

After pushing himself to perform (and score well)  with his 7th grade band at the annual evaluations, my son decided that he was indeed miserably sick and asked for some hot and sour soup from his favorite place in Snellville-Mah Jong. He told me that it always made him feel better and was probably the cure for the common cold.

I always feel better after a nice steamy bowl of the nearly slimy stuff. Mah Jong has been serving up H & S Soup to my now teenager since he could swallow. “Our” waiter, Ben, who has moved on to have his own family used to fish out the tofu from the big pot in the kitchen and bring Drew a bowl of flavored goodness. Ben even sat down when it wasn’t busy and fed Drew himself. It may well be why the kid rarely ever gets sick and why, when he does, it is what he craves.

Not really sure what is actually on the ingredient list and may not want to know, but it is the stuff that cures are made of. Drew popped up out of bed this morning ready for his day…thanks to his bowl of Hot and Sour Soup.

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Death by Bradford Pear…

Bradford Pear Tree

is a long, slow, miserable, hacking, wheezing, coughing way to go…
I was “getting my walk on” around the block and had just finished a pleasant chat with a friend when I turned the corner and noticed the pretty white trees along the road. It was a pleasant scene for about 20 seconds. That was when I got a huge “mouthful” of Bradford Pear scent…The scent is so pervasively thick that it seems to coat your tongue and inside of your mouth along with producing an almost immediate wheeze…if you are so predisposed. For those of us who are “sensitive”, Bradford Pear Trees are best viewed from inside an air-conditioned vehicle headed away from the pretty blossoms as fast as is reasonably safe.

The good news is…starting Bradford Pear Season early means it might just be over earlier. It is a cruel twist of nature that Bradford Pear Trees are so pretty they take your breath away…

Got My Walk On…Thanks Deen of Cakes…

This has been one of those weeks that just sort of vanished into thin air…Two kids, family, hockey, soccer, finishing up writing deadlines, laundry and housekeeping stuff…you get the picture…it all goes by pretty fast.

Just one of the amazing cakes by Janet "Deen of Cakes" Henry

Before I knew it, we arrived at Thursday and I had not taken a step towards my walking goal. I had been avoiding my long-distance walking partner, but she tracked me down today and made sure I got my walk on! Janet lives in North Georgia and is the skinniest cake boss I have ever met! We call her the Deen of Cakes since her maiden name is Deen..But she is a serious walker and makes sure I know the boss means business! Plus, she is the organizer extraordinaire of our high school gatherings and wants to make sure that by the time we get to our big reunion this fall, I will require new clothes two sizes smaller than the last reunion.

So, on a week that pretty much absorbed itself in a black hole of mundaneness…I finally broke out and stumbled my way around the block a few times. I wonder if that earned me a slice of cake?

Take a Leap…

leap of faith, leapfrog, leap along, take a flying leap, quantum leap, look before you leap…and on and on..

What to do with this “extra” day? If you take the advice of some of the popular leaping idioms, then you might find some new faith in just about anything. Perhaps the divine, yourself or a loved one deserves a leap of faith on your part. Maybe just a friendly game of leapfrog with your kids is in order to celebrate the day. If someone tells you to take a flying leap, it might be that they could use a leap of faith. Perhaps a quantum leap might be a good topic for discussion among the Big Bang Theory characters…I think Sheldon would certainly have some random set of facts surrounding the quantum leap and  would also enjoy telling the story of why we need to “reset” our calendars every four years. Just don’t sit in his spot.

One popular “leapdiom” is Look Before You Leap. While assessing a decision before you decide is always good advice…a smart friend of mine once said to me, “If you feel froggy…jump.” Or, as today would suggest…LEAP!

Fireworks and Oscar Nominees…

Ah…Grant and Kelly…lovely to watch on the Riviera. I laugh every time she asks him if he wants a leg or a breast! She gives the thief all sorts of grief until she realizes that he is, indeed, the real thing. He is not the cat that she thought he was. She is not the kitten he mistook her for…Together, the sensual tension on the screen steams the scenes until they are ready to melt! Can’t help but laugh when the fireworks go off in the background…Same symbolism was used in another Oscar-nominated film shown a couple of weeks ago. Katharine Hepburn’s Summertime with Rossano Brazzi uses the same technique to display forbidden passions. Very goofy by today’s standards, but, like a Hitchcock method…leaves everything up to the best special effects generator ever created…the human mind.

Thanks Turner Classic Movies…It has been a month to remember!

To Catch A Thief

Celebrating Tsali! A Great “Big Brother”…

It isn’t possible for EVERYONE to have a big brother. You have to find them where you can, especially if you are first-born. My own “big brothers” were my cousins. Donnie, Jeff and Scott were all older than me and Bradley was younger, but Scott and I were closest in age so he got to be my “big brother”. My mom had a big brother, Phil, who was the dad to my cousins. It works out that way. My own dad WAS the big brother, so he gets it when you say that you have to find someone to be your “big brother” when you are the oldest.

My youngest son, Alex, obviously has a big brother. My oldest son, Drew, had to find his own. He considers himself very lucky to have cousins. So do I.

Today, Cousin Tsali is celebrating his birthday at a dinner for the top 50 scholar-athletes in the state of Indiana. That is a pretty big deal and great timing. That way, mom and dad have technically taken him out to dinner.

We travel to Indiana at least twice a year to watch “the cousins” play some sort

Tsali, Drew and Alex

Happy Birthday Tsali!

of sport or visit them at a reunion. When we can’t, there is the incredible invention of “live streaming” for most events or we can keep up with the accomplishments via Social Media. We sit around the computer somewhat like our grandparents sat around the radio only we get to watch the action.

Through this connectedness…my boys have managed to find in all of their cousins a certain leadership quality of being “older”. Drew gets to choose from lots of older people in his own sports, church and local circles for his role models. But, he chooses his cousins. And tonight, one of those cousins, Tsali turns 18 while being honored for his hard work, dedication and commitment to doing the “right thing” (most of the time!). We are proud of you bud! You make an amazing “big brother”. Must have been your role models…

Accidents and Wrecks-Change…In An Instant

This morning began with a great breakfast with a dear friend. I ran into one of my favorite friends on the way out. Everyone calls him “Pop”. There had been great news all around of new life on the way and news of new life just born the day before. Great news generally surrounds “Pop” and he is one of the most positive people I know despite the tragedies he has witnessed over the years. He is a man of amazing faith. I think I was supposed to see him today. Helped with the rest of the day…which was no accident.

When I got back to the house, I heard my mom talking to my aunt about something that had clearly made her sad. It was a tragic loss of my aunt’s great grandchild in a train crossing car wreck. A dark, rural and unmarked train crossing. Mother, friend, two children all killed in an instant. The baby was life-flighted to Indy and is expected to be fine. Dad will raise the baby on his own now. In an instant.

I remember “Pop” telling me recently that every moment is precious and life is to be lived to the fullest with faith. His words were timely today and I was grateful to have “run into” him today. There are no accidents, but  a wreck can change things in an instant.

Beach Bread-No Meat, No Sacrifice? An Ash Wednesday Menu…

As a kid, Ash Wednesday in our Catholic household generally meant fried salmon patties, macaroni and cheese or fish sandwiches from Mickey D’s. While mac and cheese was passable, salmon patties and fish sandwiches were a sacrifice to actually palette. Bill The Cat had some pretty good outbursts for things he didn’t like, but I am sure they were nothing compared to my kids’ faces the first time salmon patties were mentioned.

Then, I discovered Beach Bread. Specifically, Estero Beach at Fort Myers. No meat on the plate, but that doesn’t really qualify as a sacrifice… which is not in the spirit of Ash Wednesday. My kids’ faces are much happier when faced with an open face of olive oil toasted french bread, fresh basil, mozzarella and blue cheese, fresh and thinly sliced marinated tomatoes all slipped under the broiler for just the right amount of time.

My friends at the Hail Mary Pub here in Grayson, GA have a great version that will do if you are not of a mind to make it at home or don’t have the resources to hop down to the beach on a whim. The proprietors suggest that the Beach Bread goes well with a bowl of chili and a frosty mug of amber liquid. However, that falls even further out of the category of sacrifice and we still have yet to attend Mass…

Next up, whether to “give up” something for Lent or “give more” of oneself…something to think about.